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Resilience
By admin | June 11, 2009
Last nite after attending a Preview on Property investment, I met several baby boomers. After the talk, we stop to chat about live. One of them shared that it’s better not to indulge in our children. We have been through very tough times and most of our children have not.
If parents were to think that giving children what you don’t have is good may want to think again. If children do not know hardship it is harder for them to take setbacks. He also said, you see why nowadays, there are so many children who cannot take it, turn to undesirable substance and disempowering actions. I tend to agree with him.
Resilience
Resilience is a process, a life journey.
Children watch how you handle hardships, challenges and overcome obstacles. This is where the emotional behaviour comes into play. They do what you do not what you say. Are we consciously aware of what we think, feel and say? If you talk about be thrifty, are you? If you talk about be healthy, are you? If you talk about happiness, are you? How congruent are you? Food for thought.
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