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  • About Dolly Yeo

    Life & Parenting Coach

    On reflection, the different stages of my life have taught me how important it is to believe in myself and others to empower ourselves and to live a life we desire.
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    Dear Dolly, my Coach

    Indeed, taking actions and forming new habits which are key elements I learnt through coaching could not be more than real if I did not make the conscious effort to create the new wiring to my potential uniqueness. How powerful when I applied this theory and I am earnest in discovering more and more about myself.

    I want to express my heartfelt gratitude to you for having kindly walked with me through this painful and gainful journey.

    During the darkest and most vulnerable moments of my life, you had generously shared your spirit of supporting, giving and caring through your coaching profession. You skillfully worked with me on setting and visualizing my three inspiring goals at the start, and were sharp in identifying the usefulness of the coaching skills set as a life skill I could find synergistic to my Human Resource Management profession. Meeting you through my coaching sessions had been inspiring and insightful. Your questioning skills and dialogue with me had always challenged me to deeper thinking and cultivated much mental preparedness forging ahead for the goals. You were sensitive in stretching me to realize my strengths and yet balanced with endearing support and tenderness to keep me in momentum.

    Through our coaching journey, you are more than my Coach; you are now my friend and confidante, and I have respect, admiration and trust in you.

    Having the chance to complete, with your encouragement, my Intensive Coaching Training, I can endorse that you are truly a coaching professional with a wealth of experience, expertise, passion and compassion!

    Chan Seow Yang, Author of "Possibilities Abound"

    "The coaching Dolly has given me has helped me become more aware and confident of my abilities. Looking back at our few months together, I am amazed by how much has happened and changed for the better in my life. Such is the power of coaching! Dolly herself is an inspiration; everything she does is rooted in her values and this shows in how she is and how she coaches. More power Dolly!

    I really wanted to tell you how grateful I am to have had you as my Coach and to be friends with you.

    Thank you also for allowing yourself to be used by the Universe as it conspires to make things happen for me. Through you I have not only gained skills, confidence and new habits, I have also gained clarity of purpose and a real sense of wonder and amazement at all the possibilities available to me. You are a real inspiration to me. I wish you all the best in your endeavours. I know that you will be successful because your heart is always in the right place."

    Darlene, Life Coach

    "Setting goals to cover aspects of my life has allowed me to get a balance which I was previously lacking. Consistent sessions with my coach to do a goals-audit definitely propelled me to phenomenal growth with a short span of 10 months. I learnt that if I can’t do something, then I must! When Dolly touches your life, you can be rest assured that only extremely great things happen for you! Her honesty and dedication is unparalleled. I admire her professionalism and definitely her sessions gave me a renewed sense of motivation to get off my butt and get things done NOW!! Dolly, I cannot thank you enough for the enormous positivity you have injected into my life by giving me space to reflect as well as pulling me back to take action when I was drifting away. I think a website of your own would definitely help others get to know more about the good work you do every single day. I think you could write a book. MOST OF ALL, THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!!!!"

    Ramesh Muthusamy, Trainer

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    Building relationships and appreciating your children

    By admin | September 7, 2007

    September 2 2007 my two loving daughters were in the kitchen for hours.  Both of them refused to let me and my husband enter.  Sounds like they were cooking a storm.  Finally they came out with a tray of lovelist cup cakes that I have seen.  Chocolate top with colourful green & blue alphabets arranged into “pops n mops we love you from us”.

    We were very happy and touched obviously.  The cakes were very delicious. Without hesitation I said, “I am so blessed, thank you girls for putting so much effort into baking these lovely and delicious cupcakes, I love you too!”  I am quite sure they felt appreciated for the effort they both put in. The cakes were bonus, the real value lies with the love we felt.

    The joy is really seeing them so close, enjoying, discussing and cooperating in the kitchen.  I believe this is what parents want to see and feel the closeness of their siblings and the love they have for us. I am grateful everyday.  For us to have this loving relationship is like watering the plant everyday.  Building relationships with hugs and positive communicationsCatch them do something right and praise them.  By acknowledging them we bring out the potential of their goodness and empower them.  We show that we appreciate them not by their academic achievements but the little things they do everyday.   Showing care and concern over their siblings.

    A few years’ back I was unconsciously catching them doing things wrong and making myself right unconsciously too!  No acknowledgement and certainly lack of appreciations.  Do you think they want to be at home or around us?  Definitely not!  I had to attend so many seminars and so many radio talks on parenting and just as many self development course to do very simple things like saying “I love you”; “Thank you, I am so blessed.”  Sometimes you can hear parents say things like,, “Well, who are they?  We work so hard to feed them, house them, they should thank us!  Does it sound familiar to you?  I dont know about you, I was one of those who need to be educated to love my children unconditionally.    How did I do it?  I learn to love myself. I lost myself,  I forgot who I am.  I was frustrated with life because I try so hard to fix them instead of fixing myself.  I worry too much about them. I learnt to let go.  I know it is hard, when you let go, they want to come to you.  When you hang onto them they cannot breath because we forgot that they need to grow up.  You may asked, “I dont want them to make mistakes”.  Well, mistakes help us learn.  Instead of sending them to courses, I attend courses.  Instead of doing things for them, to them because I love them.  I learn to have a life, my life just begun.  They learn to cook.  They learn to make decisions. They learn life skills. I love myself and I have more love to give them with my loving energy. My job is to guide them, coach them and love them.  Most of all lead an inspiring life mself!  I am parenting differently.

    Topics: Parent Coaching |

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